How to Talk About the Weekend

Excelling in your profession extends beyond simply performing your duties effectively. Building and maintaining professional relationships can greatly enhance your visibility and increase the likelihood of future career opportunities and advancement.

One effective way to achieve this is through engaging in small talk.

Small talk refers to friendly, informal conversations about neutral, surface-level topics. While these interactions may be impromptu, they are also often predictable. By anticipating and preparing for these conversations, you can increase your comfort level and communicate with confidence.

For example, it is common for colleagues to inquire about your weekend plans on Fridays and to ask about your experiences over the weekend on Mondays.

By being prepared to engage in these conversations, you can create opportunities for building relationships and making a positive impression.

In order to effectively engage in small talk and build professional relationships, it's important to go beyond providing one-word responses. Here are some general tips and basic responses to help you navigate these conversations:

How Was Your Weekend?

When asked "How was your weekend?", instead of simply saying "good", try providing more information to set the tone for the conversation.

For example, "My weekend was pretty relaxing. I spent most of Saturday catching up on my favorite shows on Netflix. How about you? What did you do over the weekend?"

By giving more detail and introducing a specific topic, such as Netflix, you open up the conversation and create opportunities for common points of interest with your colleague. Additionally, starting your response with an adjective, such as "relaxing", can create interest and encourage further conversation.

Remember, the key to effective small talk is to be prepared, be open-minded, and be willing to share a little about yourself in order to build a connection and establish a sense of camaraderie with your colleagues.

Ask Better Questions

An effective way to sound more confident and natural when engaging in small talk is to practice your conversation starters and questions.

It's important to avoid coming across as if you are conducting an interview and to steer clear of asking too many yes or no questions. Instead, try to phrase your questions in a more conversational and open-ended manner.

For example, instead of asking "Did you go to the beach this weekend?" try saying "Hey, you look so tan today! Oh yeah, I remember you mentioned you were going to the beach with your family. Where did you end up going?"

This approach not only starts with a respectful, work-appropriate compliment but also shows that you have been paying attention to previous conversations with your colleague. It adds a personal touch to the conversation and encourages them to provide more detailed responses.

When possible, avoid starting with "Did" questions as they tend to sound formal and can often be answered with a simple "yes" or "no". Instead, aim to phrase your questions in a way that prompts a specific and detailed response.

Check Your Body Language

Small talk is meant to be informal and relaxed, so it's important to convey that through your body language and facial expressions. To create a more inviting atmosphere and make others feel comfortable talking to you, remember to breathe, smile and relax your shoulders.

Additionally, observe your colleagues during their interactions with each other for inspiration on how to project a more relaxed and approachable demeanor. By mimicking their body language and facial expressions, you can create a more inviting atmosphere and help build deeper connections with your colleagues.

Keep Trying

You may have a few awkward interactions before you get the hang of engaging in small talk naturally, and that’s ok - keep trying. Cultivating professional connections can significantly boost your exposure and open doors to new career possibilities.

Remember, technical skills get you hired, but soft skills get you promoted.

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